{"id":276,"date":"2023-01-18T22:43:45","date_gmt":"2023-01-18T15:43:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/?p=276"},"modified":"2023-05-01T22:53:58","modified_gmt":"2023-05-01T15:53:58","slug":"song-dung-hay-la-song-hanh-phuc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/2023\/01\/18\/song-dung-hay-la-song-hanh-phuc\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang, hay l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u00f3 ch\u0103ng l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e2u ch\u1eef \u0111i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. “N\u00ean v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng Y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u00f3 thu nh\u1eadp cao hay v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng M\u1ef9 Thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111am m\u00ea?” ho\u1eb7c “N\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0o l\u00e0m v\u1ecb tr\u00ed nh\u00e0n h\u1ea1 m\u00e0 an to\u00e0n hay t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh m\u1edf c\u00f4ng ty ri\u00eang \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n?”. \u0110\u00fang, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. \u0110\u00e2u l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 sai, hay li\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi?\n

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G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u2013 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u1ebf. C\u1ea3 hai ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u m\u00ea kinh doanh, th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u1edbi kh\u1edfi nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u1ec1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p m\u00e0 s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ea3 hai trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u201cL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn? Li\u1ec7u \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn kh\u00f4n ngoan hay kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0, ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111o\u00e1n ra, c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1ea5t th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn \u2013 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft! L\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai hay kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u00e0 ti\u00ean tri, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai b\u00e1o m\u1ed9ng, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec3n th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd s\u1ea1t nghi\u1ec7p. Ai m\u00e0 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e0ng b\u00e0n lu\u1eadn, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 theo m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ednh to\u00e1n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 hay h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh trong khi tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, n\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tr\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec3m.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng ra ch\u00fang t\u00f4i n\u00ean h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u201cLi\u1ec7u quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn ta h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac?\u201d Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u1eady th\u00f4i.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0m h\u1ecd vui v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng vui, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 l\u00e0 trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p hay cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i khi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m khi\u1ebfn ta b\u1eadn t\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0103n t\u1ed1i v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta h\u1eb3n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0o cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 nh\u1ecdc s\u1ee9c, trong khi \u0111\u00e1ng ra ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, ti\u1ebfp th\u00eam n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 th\u1ee9 n\u00e0o trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh mang t\u00ednh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, th\u1ee9 n\u00e0o khi\u1ebfn ta ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u2013 n\u00f3i cho c\u00f9ng, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng tin d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed5ng k\u1ebft nh\u1ea5t. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta h\u1eb3n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft, nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o s\u1ebd g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n t\u1ea1o n\u00ean c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1eb3ng ai nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ea3, n\u00ean th\u1eadt l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a khi c\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u201c\u0111\u00fang hay kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang\u201d. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 vui v\u1ebb v\u1edbi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh hay nh\u1ea5t trong \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra khi t\u00f4i v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn \u201ch\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac\u201d thay v\u00ec \u201cch\u00ednh x\u00e1c\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi tr\u01b0\u1eddng Lu\u1eadt v\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 th\u1ea5y vui khi \u0111i h\u1ecdc. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t t\u00f4i t\u1eebng l\u00e0m, v\u00ec c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn tr\u01b0\u1eddng Lu\u1eadt ch\u1ec9 b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u00edch cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai m\u00e0 t\u00f4i cho l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc Lu\u1eadt hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Albert Schweizer t\u1eebng n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cTh\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u00edch vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m, b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi t\u00f4i \u0111i theo \u201ch\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac\u201d, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn cho s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ee1 m\u1ea5t v\u00e0i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u1edbn v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1edb ti\u1ec1n r\u1ee7ng r\u1ec9nh. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u01a1i c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi, khi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, th\u00ec c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ham danh l\u1ee3i, c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a khi t\u00f4i ch\u1ebft \u2013 nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 xem, ch\u00ed \u00edt th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

CTV bi\u00ean d\u1ecbch v\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u00f3 ch\u0103ng l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e2u ch\u1eef \u0111i […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":374,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-276","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-noi-bat","category-quan-diem"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/276","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=276"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/276\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":449,"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/276\/revisions\/449"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/374"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=276"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=276"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=276"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}