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B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1edb l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00ecnh th\u1eed th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi? L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1eadt th\u00fa v\u1ecb, ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng? Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u0103m ba l\u1ea7n, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00f4 v\u1ecb. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i l\u00e0 t\u00ednh th\u00edch \u1ee9ng. \u01afu \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a.<\/p>\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nL\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00ean m\u00e1y bay, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 chuy\u00ean c\u01a1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t, phong c\u00e1ch nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi. Gi\u1edd t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 coi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n giao th\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m. Ng\u1ed3i m\u00e1y bay v\u1eabn l\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i m\u00e1y bay, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 n\u00f3 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng kh\u00e2m ph\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0 Louis C.K t\u1eebng n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cT\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean m\u00e1y bay \u0111\u00e1ng ra ph\u1ea3i th\u1ed5n th\u1ee9c: \u201cL\u1ea1y ch\u00faa! Th\u1eadt k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u!\u201d B\u1ea1n \u0111ang bay \u0111\u1ea5y! B\u1ea1n \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc gh\u1ebf,<\/em> tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 quen r\u1ed3i, c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c. Khi t\u00f4i chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn \u1edf London v\u00e0i n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ea5y nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 chuy\u1ec3n nh\u00e0 v\u00e0o th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i khi \u0111\u00f3: t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng v\u00f4 v\u1ecb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trong th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ea7u, t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh c\u00f3 v\u1ebb r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. Ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i, kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00fa v\u1ecb. Nh\u01b0ng, sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea5y, ch\u00fang ta th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u00e0 quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 – k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng \u201cthay \u0111\u1ed5i\u201d l\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cT\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cC\u00f3 nh\u00e0 m\u1edbi, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cT\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ebf t\u1eafc trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. L\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t l\u00e0: t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1edbi.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cM\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh m\u1edbi s\u1ebd ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cT\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 m\u1edbi v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u1edbi c\u00e1i th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 n\u00e0y.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cMua s\u1eafm nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 c\u00e1nh m\u1edbi s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nh\u01b0 Seth Godin t\u1eebng n\u00f3i, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e1y k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n. Ch\u00fang ta th\u00edch k\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 chuy\u1ec7n cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 cho c\u1ea3 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i s\u1ebd mang \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch cho b\u1ea1n trong ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng theo th\u1eddi gian, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi ch\u00fang. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1edbi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u1edbi, nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i m\u1edbi, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n m\u1edbi m\u1ebb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n R\u1ed3i th\u00ec sao? L\u1ea1i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3? Ch\u00fang ta theo \u0111u\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u1edbi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1edbi ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c k\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng:<\/p>\n\n\n\n K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0o t\u1ed1t, v\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u1ec9 t\u1ed1t khi n\u00f3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cL\u1ecbch s\u1eed l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1edb b\u1ecba \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn.\u201d<\/em> \u2015 Napol\u00e9on Bonaparte<\/p>\n\n\n\n Li\u1ec7u chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1? N\u1ebfu chuy\u1ec3n nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i \u00edch v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00ec \u1edf n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, v\u1eady th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111i ngay. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ed5 t\u00edch n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 l\u1edbn th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch k\u1ec3. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y 100 n\u0103m, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 ngo\u00e0i kia c\u00f2n c\u00f3 h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0: \u0110\u1eebng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 chung m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1: c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac, ch\u00fang ta th\u00edch t\u1ef1 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cL\u1eeba m\u00ecnh d\u1ed1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1eeba m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc, r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.\u201d<\/em> \u2015 Fyodor Dostoyevsky<\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u2013 b\u1edfi v\u00ec thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng. Tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 thu\u1ed1c tr\u1ecb b\u00e1ch b\u1ec7nh, v\u00e0 \u201cthay \u0111\u1ed5i\u201d c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ea7n ch\u00fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n k\u1ec3 ra ch\u1eb3ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n l\u00e0 n\u00f3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n CTV bi\u00ean d\u1ecbch v\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi lu\u00f4n thay \u0111\u1ed5i, thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh lu\u1eadt, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9… r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":388,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-noi-bat","category-quan-diem"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/245","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=245"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/245\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":436,"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/245\/revisions\/436"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/388"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=245"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=245"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/motsuynghi.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=245"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}