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Dieter Uchtdorf \u2013 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o s\u0129 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00e0 c\u00e1n b\u1ed9 c\u1ea5p cao c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t h\u00e3ng h\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng \u2013 th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ec3 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch chuy\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc \u0111\u00e0n d\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea7m c\u1ee1 l\u1edbn t\u1eeb nh\u00e0 th\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ed9i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho bu\u1ed5i h\u00f2a nh\u1ea1c s\u1eafp t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi kh\u00f4ng ai trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec1 v\u1eadn chuy\u1ec3n m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n d\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea7m th\u00ec v\u1eeba c\u1ed3ng k\u1ec1nh v\u1eeba v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00edu trong khi c\u1eeda v\u00e0o th\u00ec l\u1ea1i h\u1eb9p. M\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u00e2y quanh chi\u1ebfc \u0111\u00e0n d\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea7m th\u1eed r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u01b0 th\u1ebf, l\u0103n qua l\u0103n l\u1ea1i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 cho c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ecdt qua c\u1eeda. Nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd th\u1eed m\u00e3i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u1eebng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u00e1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111i qua, nh\u00ecn h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t l\u00fac v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cC\u00e1c anh h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ee9ng g\u1ea7n v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u00e0 c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf m\u00e0 nh\u1ea5c l\u00ean l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.\u201d \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e1m ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng h\u1ebft c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nghe theo l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean. Vi\u1ec7c v\u1eadn chuy\u1ec3n di\u1ec5n ra su\u00f4n s\u1ebb nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc r\u00fat ra l\u00e0, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch l\u00e0m ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u00f3a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u00f3a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u00f3a m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u00f3a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfc \u0111\u00e0n d\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea7m v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u v\u00f2 \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ee9t tai \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch khi\u00eang qua c\u1eeda.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Theo Brendon Burchard, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1n The Charged Life, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e3i \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i h\u1ed1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0o n\u1eeda v\u1eddi. H\u1ecd ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i h\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e0o v\u1edbi hy v\u1ecdng s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y m\u1ecf v\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng sau m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecd n\u1ea3n ch\u00ed v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i v\u1ecb tr\u00ed n\u00e0y h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u00e0ng, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac \u0111\u1ed5i sang ch\u1ed7 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eadn b\u1ecbu, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. Nh\u01b0 ki\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc n\u1eefa h\u1ecdc m\u00e3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00e2n l\u00fd. \u201c\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00e1ng c\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec trong \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng,\u201d Ryan Holiday t\u1eebng n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u1edf ngay ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c\u0110\u1eebng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ti\u1ebfp theo. Th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u1eafm trong tay ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i.\u201d \u2013 Paul Arden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00f2ng c\u1ea3m k\u00edch<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2y, l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e1i m\u00e0 h\u1ecd cho l\u00e0 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u201cH\u00e3y theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111am m\u00ea v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac!\u201d l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn \u0111ang s\u1ea7u kh\u1ed5 ho\u1eb7c v\u00f2 \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1eafc m\u1eafc: \u201c\u0110am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 g\u00ec? L\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111am m\u00ea?\u201d H\u1ecd \u0111ang lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n trong m\u1ed9t m\u00ea cung kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1eeda, \u0111i t\u00ecm c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, So Good They Can\u2019t Ignore You, Cal Newport ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 truy t\u00ecm \u0111am m\u00ea. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, \u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u00f4i luy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng h\u1eefu \u00edch. Khi b\u1ea1n gi\u1ecfi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean, tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111am m\u00ea v\u1edbi n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec th\u1ee9 g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a khi ch\u00fang gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadp th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y l\u01b0u luy\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i, c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eb9p ch\u1ec9 hi\u1ec7n ra trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00e2m. B\u1ea1n li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3? B\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y g\u00ec \u0111i n\u1eefa th\u00ec c\u00e1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 h\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, l\u00e0 b\u1edfi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. S\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng c\u1ea3m k\u00edch l\u00e0 hai lo\u1ea1i gia v\u1ecb gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y qua vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m cha nu\u00f4i c\u1ee7a ba \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. Trong s\u00e1u th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ea7u, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 sau gi\u1edd l\u00e0m. L\u0169 tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 ngh\u1ecbch v\u00e0 ch\u00fang khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m trong m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i t\u1eebng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 \u00e2m u nh\u01b0: \u201cM\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu t\u1ed9i th\u1ebf n\u00e0y?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u1ed3i chuy\u1ec7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i khi t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i, v\u00ec t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng tr\u00f4ng mong g\u00ec v\u00e0o chuy\u1ec7n l\u0169 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 l\u00e0m theo \u00fd t\u00f4i. Nghe theo l\u1eddi Mahatma Gandhi, t\u00f4i \u201ctr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u201d. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m h\u01a1n, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn h\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau khi\u1ebfn cho l\u0169 tr\u1ebb vui v\u1ebb. Cu\u1ed9c c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng di\u1ec5n ra l\u00e2u h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi \u01b0\u1edbc l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ban \u0111\u1ea7u, m\u00e3i \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y m\u1edbi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00edt k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. Quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t. Nh\u01b0ng quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t tay l\u00ean ng\u1ef1c v\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau l\u0169 tr\u1ebb. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u00f3, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 do th\u1eddi gian m\u00e0i ra. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra t\u1eeb l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n y\u00eau c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, h\u00e3y lao \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o n\u00f3. H\u00e3y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 vui v\u1ebb, h\u00e3y quan t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 ng\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c d\u00e1o d\u00e1c ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecm n\u00f3. Trong cu\u1ed1n Man\u2019s Search for Meaning, Viktor Frankl c\u00f3 n\u00f3i: \u201cTh\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111u\u1ed5i theo \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, d\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ea1ng m\u1ed9t \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u00ean l\u1ec1 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ebfn trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cho m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch cao c\u1ea3 h\u01a1n, ho\u1eb7c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ph\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd hi\u1ebfn d\u00e2ng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec m\u00ecnh.\u201d B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eebng suy t\u01b0 v\u1ec1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1eefa. \u0110\u1eebng c\u00f3 nh\u00ecn sang xe tay ga c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh. H\u00e3y tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng chi\u1ebfc xe tay c\u00f4n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3. Jim Rohn t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u1eebng \u01b0\u1edbc g\u00ec m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n, h\u00e3y \u01b0\u1edbc m\u00ecnh gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1eebng \u01b0\u1edbc g\u00ec c\u00f3 \u00edt v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u01a1n, h\u00e3y \u01b0\u1edbc m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1eebng \u01b0\u1edbc g\u00ec \u0111\u1eddi \u00edt th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c h\u01a1n, h\u00e3y \u01b0\u1edbc m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i h\u01a1n.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau qu\u00fd m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 v\u00ec n\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o h\u01a1n. Thay v\u00ec t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 h\u01a1n, h\u00e3y tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong cu\u1ed1n The Leader Who Had No Title, Robin Sharma l\u00fd lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft v\u1ecb tr\u00ed hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec7n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean qu\u00e8n, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n suy ngh\u0129, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o. R\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 th\u1eddi gian c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ee9ng th\u1eb3ng, \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng, \u0111\u1ee9ng ngay t\u1ea1i v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKhi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi: \u201cB\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec?\u201d ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng: \u201cB\u1ea1n t\u00ednh l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vang d\u1ed9i h\u01a1n?\u201d B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i cho h\u1ecd c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n nghe. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cHi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i.\u201d Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 t\u00e1n th\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp.\u201d \u2013 tr\u00edch Ryan Holiday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dan Sullivan, ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp c\u00f4ng ty Strategic Coach, \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cB\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, h\u00e3y l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y \u0103n m\u1eebng n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed ti\u1ebfp theo. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee3i ch\u1edd ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh thay \u0111\u1ed5i, h\u00e3y c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00f4 v\u00e0n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111ang ch\u1edd nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 cho nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft ch\u00e1n gh\u00e9t hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                                                                 CTV bi\u00ean d\u1ecbch v\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a Benjamin Hardy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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